How To Prepare Children For Wealth

by admin on February 10, 2012

A common theme for many of my clients is concern around how to prepare children for wealth. Whether your children are adults or toddlers, this causes a great deal of stress. I had the good fortune of attending a workshop that Dr. Dennis Jaffe Ph.D co-facilitated.  A key learning for me was that parents think once all of the very technical aspects of a wealth plan are in place, we feel our job is done.  Dennis explains in this article that the plan is only a beginning.  How we work with our children (young or old) to prepare them to deal with wealth is just as important as any legal document that is designed to help make sure their wealth is protected.  Jaffe provides 7 practical tips on the subject. 

I hope you enjoy the article.

Pat

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